Friendship in the Military
- Feb 19
- 2 min read
From The Warfighter's Study Bible
As if making friends as an adult weren't hard enough, throw in the possibility of a move every two to three years and you've got a pretty daunting situation. However, unlike your civilian counterparts, this presents a unique opportunity. With each move, the possibility to begin again is always there.
Each new duty assignment allows you to start fresh to begin a new adventure. Your perspective plays a huge role in how you will conduct yourself and whom you attract to yourself. Going into each new assignment with a positive attitude, ready and willing to learn what's needed to accomplish the mission, is crucial for success. It's equally important to have the right mindset when choosing with whom you surround yourself and with whom you spend your time. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 13:20, "Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm." My mom always used to say, "Birds of a feather flock together." Be intentional about choosing with whom you spend your time.
God created us in his image and desires to be in a relationship with us. He created us to need relationships as well, not only with him first and foremost but also with other Christians. We must surround ourselves with others who share the same core values. Not only does this lead you to other men and women who are seeking to walk in God's will, but it also provides a community where you can fit in and grow in your faith as well.
The challenge comes when you are the new person at your new duty assignment. Having a clear understanding of who you are in Christ will assist you in standing out and sharing his love with those around you. You will attract others who want to live in Christ's light as well. Stand up courageously for your convictions. Stand apart from the crowd instead of just going along with those whose values do not honor Christ. When you are true to yourself and to the One who created you, God will bring those people into your life that you didn't even know you needed.
I challenge you to find a place of worship in your local area. Maybe that means the chapel on your installation or a church in the nearby community. Either way, step out in faith, find a small group where you can plug in. Whether you are single or married, there is a group for you. Even when it may seem intimidating to be the new person, take that initial step to surround yourself with God's people. You will find that God wants you to be connected and he will lead you to just the right place at the right time.
More Scripture for Further Study
Genesis 1:27
1 Corinthians 15:33
2 Corinthians 4:6
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